personal finance

The Good Kind of Cheap Date

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Hello Friends! I realize I made this video, The Good Kind of Cheap Date, but never posted it here. Dope! Silly me. I hope you enjoy and get some good ideas for your ideal kinds of ‘cheap date.’ And I promise, they are possible and wonderful!

Check out the video below where my fiancee (at the time, now husband- wahooo) and I take in a free concert, Friday jazz in the park. We went shopping for some snacks and brought a blanket to enjoy the afternoon. We spent around $15 at Trader Joes (I heart TJs) for crackers, cheese, meats and such. And, we did purchase a pitcher of sangria at the park for about $20. Together that’s $35 for two people, or $17.50 per person for those counting, to enjoy a date together with some live music and great energy. (yes we did buy ice cream so add that in but that was a bit impromptu). Cheap date? Yes please!

You can also check out my YouTube Channel here. Keeping in theme, the channel is called My Wonderfund.  Please subscribe! It’s just getting started, but, let me know what you like and I will make sure and post more. 

And, if you think finding something free to do is silly, remember, it’s all about mindset! Quality of life is not measured by money spent. Check out this post on abundance and consider it’s all about how you frame things, like a free concert in the park. Time together, time outdoors, time celebrating your city, time in community with other locals. Awesome!

How do you find out what’s going on in your city? The lovely google of course! Kidding, kind of. Check out your city pages for a calendar. Also, check out things like ‘business improvement districts,’ or BIDs, as they usually put on fun events to draw people to a neighborhood. Check out neighborhood webpages for a calendar of events. And, cities will usually have some local groups highlighting cool events to check out. Google can usually point you in the right direction if you google ‘things going on in enter city here.’

Have fun!


Mindset – Abundance

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// Time for a financial change //

I’ve been thinking a lot about mindset. The mind is a powerful tool and critical to all that we do.

You’re here because you’re looking to change your financial situation. Good personal financial health and building wealth is a beautiful place to be. I am a huge supporter and want to encourage you.

// First off- yes you can! You can do it! //

But, I am not going to sugarcoat things. If you are looking to get out of some credit card debt, are looking to build your emergency fund, or are looking at starting/building a retirement account* you are going to have to make some changes to your current spending habits.

Very basically, to make-it-rain personal finance joy we have to spend less than we make.

And, you can do it!

// Mindset- gaining not loosing //

I am going to start with this upfront- it’s all about mindset.

Changing spending behaviors most directly means cutting back on purchases. You heard it here- This is NOT limiting. The idea of ‘cutting back’ does not have to equate to a limited lifestyle. Please don’t look at this as loosing something. On the contrary- you are gaining something!

When we first start to look at changing spending behaviors (ie, cutting back) it can seem limiting because the easiest things to scale back are things like expensive meals out with people, a specialty coffee every day, or a monthly subscription you may not need. But, I promise you, after you’ve done the triage of serious spending pain-points and you start being more mindful and intentional about your money, it’s glorious and liberating thing.

So, don’t see changing spending habits as a limiting principle. Keep your eye on the prize and envision the peace, abundance, and power that come along with healthy personal finance.

Speaking of envision- I’d encourage you to make a Vision Board (for how to click here) for your wall to remind you of what you see for your life…. the life you’re working and living towards in the future.

The mind is a powerful thing. Override ‘limited’ with ‘abundance.’

You’ve got this!



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*I am not a financial planner and this is NOT professional advice. However, all of these are important pieces to healthy personal finance.